I remember learning this in almost all the subjects in my higher secondary – from Psychology to Political Science to Economics.
I never really understood the full meaning until there came a time when I wasn’t able to socialize much. That was a depressing time. I had everything to keep me happy – a loving husband, a new bundle of joy, a peaceful place to live in – and yet there was a longing in me. It got to a point where my mind couldn’t take it anymore. I HAD to meet people. I HAD to socialize. I HAD to have adult conversation that didn’t involve talking about what the baby did today and what he didn’t do. That was when I truly understood that man was indeed a social animal.
But being social doesn’t guarantee true happiness. What brings true happiness is being with righteous people.
Righteous parents to bestow an upbringing that will continue down the lineage.
Righteous siblings to have a bond that sticks like glue, and not for namesake.
Righteous friends who become the rope to help you get to the Rope of Allah.
Righteous spouse who will become a means of raising your rank in the Hereafter.
Righteous children who are a means of ongoing charity for you even when you have long gone from this world.
It is this righteousness that man needs, to help one another in goodness and God-consciousness.
Man is a social animal whose innate nature is to seek righteousness to live a content and peaceful life.
~ Umm Afraz ~
MashaAllah! An excellent subject expressed well from Islamic perspective.
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JazakiAllahu khairan sister ♡
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Such a beautiful reflection. I was hoping to read more though. Perhaps your journey, from a reflection to a realisation…
Keep the ball rolling…
Inspire us with more. 🙂
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JazakiAllahu khairan Sr. Maria.
Insha Allah that may be for another post 😉
BaarakAllahu feeki ♡
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Feeling so related after reading your post. I once went through such a phase and at that time I was looking for someone I can talk more than just my problems. This post is a beautiful reflection and a reminder. May Allah bless us all with glad tidings. Aameen.
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Alhamdulillahi Rabbil 3alameen.
Allahumma Aameen ya Rabb.
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Such a beautiful reflection, thanks for sharing. I really enjoy your blog keep up the great work.
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Thank you dear 🙂
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Thank you for sharing your reflection. Sometimes, I have bouts of needing social interaction even though I am an introvert, sometimes going to the masjid or visiting with a group of friends often fulfills that need for socialization.
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Masha Allah. Alhamdulillah for the ummah, alhamdulillah for the sisterhood.
I’m actually an ambivert – neither an introvert nor an extrovert.
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Ma sha Allah!! Really an enlightening article highlighting the importance of socializing with the righteous ones . 😊
Hope to see more reflecting subjects from you.
May Allah bless your efforts and guide us thereby to the goodness in this world and the next !
Jazakumullahu khayr.
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JazakiAllahu khairan 💐
Aameen wa iyyaki ma ♡
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Masha Allah…Jazaki Allahu khairan for such a beautiful reflection..waiting for more posts
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JazakiAllahu khairan dear ♡
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it is an incredible post and mostly I can relate to it so much! I am (terribly) extrovert, I NEED to be with people, and living here in cayman islands with no friends and no family and two consecetive pregnancies and babies, gave me almost no chance to socialize
and, as you mentioned, despite everything else, I was terribly depressed. I feel imprisoned (with my husband at work almost 18 hours a day and sleeps the rest) I was terrible.
I am so glad i resumed my blogging and found a way to socialize and vent out as well.
Being a part of Muslimah Bloggers group is also amazing because almost all the posts remind you of Allah tala or something about Islam 🙂
I love you for sake of Allah :))
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Alhamdulillahi Rabbil 3alameen! 😍
Alhamdulillah for Islam, alhamdulillah for the ummah, alhamdulillah for the sisterhood.
May He for whose sake you love me Love you.
And I too love you for the sake of Allah ♡
BaarakAllahu feeki katheeran ♡
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SubhanAllah I can understand you sister. May I know which Muslimah Bloggers group you are refering to? Is there any link you could share (in sha Allah)?
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It’s an FB group. I’ll PM you the link.
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Yes its a FB group – https://m.facebook.com/groups/370238223058276
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Jazakillahu khair 🙂
Waiting for response on my Joining Request.
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This is a good reminder to socialize with righteous people. As your company can either make you or break you. What’s better than having friends who help you connect with Allah day in day out. Though your ending was too abrupt, but message got conveyed through.
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Thank you dear 🙂
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Very beautifully written. Indeed rithteous children are the key to happiness.
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Alhamdulillah
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Righteous friends are a balm on a hard day some one who will be there to share the load and lighten the knots.
Well written article.
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Beautifully said.
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Ma sha Allah short and sweet. You are a good writer, keep it coming 🙂
Jazakillahu khair for sharing your thoughts with us.
May Allah bless us all with righteous companions aameen
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Alhamdulillahi Rabbil 3alameen.
JazakiAllahu khairan habibty 💕
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Wa anti fa jazakillahu khairan katheeran 🙂
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Allahumma Aameen to the du3a.
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Well said about Righteous People….Man is a social animal whose innate nature is to seek righteousness to live a content and peaceful life….that’s really true…
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JazakiAllahu khairan 🙂
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I love this reflection mashaAllah – I really struggle with making meaningful friendships and I know why! It’s because I would rather they be quality ones as opposed to just having several friendships with no depth or substance to them.
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JazakiAllahu khairan dear. I agree. Qualitative friendship is more important than quantitative friendship.
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